What you'll learn

This tutorial, suitable for neurotypical and neurospicy people, looks at the intersection of neurodiversity and BDSM and how they can coexist. You'll develop an awareness of consent, communication, and negotiation within the context of BDSM and how these principles can be adapted to accommodate neurodiverse individuals. The tutorial also explores ethical considerations and safety within BDSM, particularly in the context of neurodiversity.

  • How to promote awareness, respect, and safe exploration for individuals who identify as neurodiverse and have an interest in BDSM

  • Hear from a neurodiverse person about how they experience BDSM from a submissive viewpoint

  • How to create safe, consensual, and enjoyable BDSM experiences that's inclusive for both neurospicy and neurotypical play partners

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Introduction

    • Introduction (2:26)

  • 2

    What Attracts Neurospicy People to BDSM?

    • What Attracts Neurospicy People to BDSM? (6:21)

  • 3

    The Positives of BDSM Play with Neurospicy People

    • The Positives of BDSM with Neurospicy People (3:12)

  • 4

    Challenges and How to Overcome Them

    • Challenges and How to Overcome Them (14:27)

  • 5

    Key Points & BDSM Tips for Neurotypical & Neurospicy People

    • Key Points & BDSM Tips for Neurotypical & Neurospicy People (11:49)

  • 6

    Interview | BDSM from a Neurospicy Perspective

    • Interview | BDSM from a Neurospicy Perspective (12:46)

  • 7

    Feedback

    • Your Feedback

Meet your educator

Instructor

Vicky Caves

Vicky has been on the BDSM scene for 20 years and running Bondatrix - a Fetish business making clothing and equipment for 18 years. She is passionate about kink and loves many aspects, from bondage to impact play to head games and exploring D/s. Vicky has spent 16 years teaching BDSM classes on many topics and loves helping people to get the most out of their kink interests. Bondatrix is a small specialized BDSM company with a worldwide reputation, which won the International Bondage Awards in 2012 and the UK Fetish Awards in 2020. Bondatrix makes a wide range of fetish clothing, bondage gear, and impact and spanking toys. Many items are created in their UK workshop from the highest quality materials, which can be customized and shipped worldwide.

Neurodiversity & BDSM

Overview from Vicky Caves

Testimonials

Great show and tell

RedStarRising

Bondatrix does a great show and tell. Beginners enjoy the thorough explanations, and experienced kinksters can develop their style of play further - RedStarRising

Practical & Enjoyable

Ruislip

A very informative, practical, and enjoyable class from an experienced and engaging teacher

Consummate professional

Mistress MK

Vicky is a consummate professional who presents a diverse range of BDSM-related topics in a fun, educational and safe manner