What you'll learn

Whether you are curious about munches, workshops, play parties, or conventions, this tutorial will serve as your compass, helping you navigate the diverse landscapes of fetish and BDSM gatherings. You'll learn about the different types of events and gain insights on what to expect while emphasizing the importance of education, etiquette, and consent.

  • Explore the different types of kinky gatherings and what to expect

  • Learn about dress codes and etiquette at fetish and BDSM events

  • Discover how to build connections with other kinksters

  • Experience a walk around in a kink venue

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Types of Kinky Events

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Introduction (0:51)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Munches (4:30)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Fetish Clubs (1:17)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Dress Code (4:54)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Etiquette (10:40)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Fetish Markets (4:14)

    • Guide to Fetish & BDSM Scene | Conventions (2:43)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Private Play Parties (2:20)

    • How to use Fetlife to find events
  • 2

    Meeting Other Kinksters

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Meeting Other Kinksters (6:19)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Hiring Private Dungeons (2:13)
  • 3

    Inside a Kink Venue

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Kink Club Denmark Walkaround (5:44)

    • Guide to the Fetish & BDSM Scene | Bondage Chair Demo (4:07)
  • 4

    Feedback

    • Your Feedback

Meet your educator

Instructor

Vicky Caves

Vicky has been on the BDSM scene for 20 years and running Bondatrix - a Fetish business making clothing and equipment for 18 years. She is passionate about kink and loves many aspects, from bondage to impact play to head games and exploring D/s. Vicky has spent 16 years teaching BDSM classes on many topics and loves helping people to get the most out of their kink interests. Bondatrix is a small specialized BDSM company with a worldwide reputation, which won the International Bondage Awards in 2012 and the UK Fetish Awards in 2020. Bondatrix makes a wide range of fetish clothing, bondage gear, and impact and spanking toys. Many items are created in their UK workshop from the highest quality materials, which can be customized and shipped worldwide.

Navigating Fetish & BDSM Events for Beginners

Overview from Vicky Caves

Testimonials

Great Kink and BDSM Educator

Mistress MK

Vicky is a great kink and BDSM educator who enjoys educating new and not-so-new BDSM’ers to not only have fun exploring their kinks but to learn to do it safely

Thorough Explanations

RedStarRising

Bondatrix does a great show and tell. Beginners enjoy the thorough explanations, and experienced kinksters can develop their style of play further

Informative & Practical

Ruislip

A very informative, practical, and enjoyable class from an experienced and engaging teacher