What you'll learn

The key to starting with BDSM is knowing the basics and how to keep things safe and straightforward, so you can feel confident in what you do and focus on having fun! This BDSM for Beginners tutorial will give you the skills to start playing with BDSM and get the most out of it.

  • How to introduce BDSM to your partner and why communication and building trust are essential

  • Discover basic techniques for using BDSM kit, with practical demonstrations on how to use floggers, crops, canes and paddles at a beginner's level

  • Learn about negotiation, safe words and checking in with your partner/s, so you can feel confident running or being involved in a BDSM scene

  • Grasp how to construct a basic BDSM scene with practical demonstrations

Course curriculum

  • 1

    BDSM for Beginners | Introduction

    • Advice

    • Introduction (0:37)
  • 2

    Talking about BDSM with your Partner

    • Talking with your Partner (14:29)
  • 3

    Intro to BDSM Roles

    • BDSM Roles (4:16)
  • 4

    Intro to Bondage

    • Bondage (10:34)
  • 5

    Intro to Impact Play

    • Impact Play (4:28)
  • 6

    Crafting a Play Session

    • Crafting a Play Session (11:10)
  • 7

    BDSM for Beginners | Conclusion

    • Conclusion (2:38)

    • Your Feedback

Meet your educator

Instructor

Vicky Caves

Vicky has been on the BDSM scene for 20 years and running Bondatrix - a Fetish business making clothing and equipment for 18 years. She is passionate about kink and loves many aspects, from bondage to impact play to head games and exploring D/s. Vicky has spent 16 years teaching BDSM classes on many topics and loves helping people to get the most out of their kink interests. Bondatrix is a small specialized BDSM company with a worldwide reputation, which won the International Bondage Awards in 2012 and the UK Fetish Awards in 2020. Bondatrix makes a wide range of fetish clothing, bondage gear, and impact and spanking toys. Many items are created in their UK workshop from the highest quality materials, which can be customized and shipped worldwide.

Testimonials

Great Kink Educator

Mistress MK

Vicky is a great kink and BDSM educator who enjoys educating new and not-so-new BDSM’ers to not only have fun exploring their kinks but to learn to do it safely

Thorough Explanations

RedStarRising

Bondatrix does a great show and tell. Beginners enjoy the thorough explanations, and experienced kinksters can develop their style of play further